Readers Note: These letters are all real. The actual identities, parts of stories and names are disguised. I post letters so that we can share with each other and not feel so alone in our passion for spanking. These letters can be helpful for you to learn from the experiences of others.

Rest assured that your email to me is strictly confidential. If you DO NOT want me to post a letter (even in disguise) please tell me. Your limits, boundaries and discretion are always my first priority. I thank all of you in advance for your thoughtful and insightful emails. Together we can learn from each other.
- Jacqueline

Hello Ms. Jacqueline Omerta,
My name is David. I am a 29 yr old male. I have been a spanko for as long as I can remember and yes I was spanked as a child but I never received any sexual gratification from it. I am at the point in my life where I am very over whelmed with this need to be disciplined and spanked but I feel I have nowhere to turn.

Throughout my adulthood I have been making bad decisions. I am completely undisciplined, and I lack focus. My family and friends tell me that I am intelligent, gifted, and capable of greatness. I even recognize these qualities in myself but I always seem to sabotage my success. I really want more out of life and I believe I deserve it. I just need a little help.

I am in the process of trying to understand this need; this spanking fetish that seems to be embedded in my DNA. One side of me wants to be spanked to tears just so I can let go of my transgressions and move forward and another part of me is so aroused at the thought of been spanked it is the only thing that will turn me on every time.

How can these two emotions coexist? Thank you for listening. I hope that one day I can arrange a trip to California. I wish you all the best and I hope to hear from you soon.
- David

Dear David,
Thank you for your thoughtful and well-written email. With your permission, I'd like to post it and of course I'd change your name and anything that would identify you. I naturally do this with every letter that I print. I am very aware of the issue of confidentiality. I am extremely discrete and make it safe for everyone and anyone to contact me.

I think you express a core conflict that we spankos all grapple with. It’s a real puzzle, isn’t it? On one hand we know that the spanking experience is by nature punitive and supposed to correct. On the other hand, the thought of getting turned over a capable lap is enough to drive us crazy with desire. It’s true irony and yet it is the very essence of the spanking fetish.

That’s why I personally lean towards keeping spanking as something sacred and fun. By using the word sacred I mean that spanking should never be mixed with negativity. For example, if one is overweight and feels bad about it, I don’t recommend a spanking for purposes of motivation. Having a negative body image does not pair with something erotic. Why spoil something that’s sexy and fun. If anything, lose weight and then go get a spanking session as a personal reward. See the difference?

I also truly believe that spanking alleviates feelings of stress. Indulging in something we enjoy might then release tension and allow you to get going on your projects. It’s when we deny ourselves something we crave that we start to feel bad. Once we feel bad a negative cycle begins and festers. You might even get compulsive about going on line when you should be working.

Listen to the family and friends who love you. Tap into the healthy part of you that wants to achieve and then allow yourself to be successful. Later, you can indulge yourself in some favorite spanking activity because you will be in touch with the idea that you deserve to have the things you want. You need to keep your life in balance. Work and play. Sometimes the old adages make real sense.

If you need to have a good cry, that’s OK. Just think of something that touches you while you are being spanked. The tears will flow naturally if you feel safe and comfortable in the situation. Always remember that tears are spontaneous. You can’t plan to be spanked to tears. And, in the end, if you are good to yourself you might not feel like crying. Hopefully you will feel aroused and spanked till you are satiated and feel fulfilled.
- Jacqueline

Dear Jacqueline,
I am a married man who likes and needs to be spanked. Unfortunately, my wife does not understand and thinks I am crazy. For a long time I used to visit this lady every couple of weeks to fulfill my needs. This went on for several years. We became very close and personal friends. She passed away a couple of years ago and I didn't see anyone for a long period of time.

I finally met a lady who believe it or not has lived two streets over from me for years. We try to get together once a week or at least every two weeks. I have left with a sore butt on more than one occasion but still something is missing.

Let me give you an example: when she uses a paddle she will start out slow but when she starts going good just as it gets to the point of making me yell out, she backs off and slows down. I would like for her to keep going, as I want to be pushed to that point. (and beyond). I do not know how to let her know. How should I bring this up with her in a way as not to upset her? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
- Leon

Dear Leon,
Thank you for your email. Your letter brings up many points.

First of all, I am sorry for your loss. Death is always something that brings up many mixed emotions. I’m sure it was also difficult to lose someone who understood your spanking needs.

Second of all, before we talk about limits I want to talk to you about making some choices. How in the world do you meet ladies who happen to live in your neighborhood who are willing to spank you? This makes no sense to me at all. Either you are not being honest or something else is going on that you are not disclosing.

Spanking is very, very personal. Generally it goes hand in hand within the context of an intimate relationship unless it is done with a professional. Since the lady is a neighbor, this sounds like cheating to me. You are playing with fire. How can you be so sure that this neighbor will keep the secret? What if she told other people that you like to be spanked? How do you imagine your wife would feel if she found out? Rethink this whole thing.

Spanking is something that should be done between two willing adults. For someone who is married, it’s safer and way more discrete to see a professional Disciplinarian. This is someone who understands spanking and will also be trained on how to correctly discipline. She will know how to you’re your limits and take you beyond if necessary.

With a professional, there is no sex involved so you will not have to feel guilty about cheating. You are simply getting your spanking needs met by someone who understands. This is the same as seeing any kind of a therapist. It’s always totally discrete and confidential. You will be able to talk to her frankly about spanking and I’m sure she will push your limits in a way that will be satisfying.

Stop sneaking about in your neighborhood. You do need a spanking, Leon!
- Jacqueline

Jacqueline,
I am a 54-year-old male. I was adopted at birth and by the age of 21 had been raised by three different stepmothers, none of which used spanking as a form of discipline.

At 21, I married my high school sweetheart and very shortly afterwards started to develop strong desires to be soundly spanked. After 30 years we divorced without me ever sharing my secret desires and needs with her. I was too afraid that she would not understand my feelings.

Four years ago I married a wonderful, beautiful woman and not to make the same mistake. I discussed my feelings about spanking during the courtship stage. My new wife accepted them with open arms and we have incorporated spanking into our daily lives as much as possible while being discreet because of the children. Here is where I really would appreciate any advice you might have to offer.

I have used your videos and articles as examples of what I envision as a punishment spanking. Again, my wife watches and reads with much interest and I am convinced she wishes to provide for my needs to the best of her abilities. But to date, she has not been able to achieve the level I desire and I believe it is tied to her fear of hurting me. Is there a way to either show or explain to her that a spanking is supposed to be uncomfortable without risking hurting her feelings or sounding ungrateful?

I have been happier the past four years than ever in my life but the desire to experience a real punishment spanking seems to possess my every thought. Believe me I have tried to bury these demons and nothing I do works long term.
I wish you were not so far away and I could see you personally for help. I can only pray that you receive this call for help and some way find time in your busy schedule to reply with your advice.

Thank you in advance for your kindness in reading this plea.
- Kevin

Dear Kevin,
It’s amazing how so many of our spanking issues are universal. As a group we experience many of the same desires, fantasies and frustrations. Just like Leon, you desire something a bit more intense but have trouble communicating your needs. This is understandable since spanking feels so personal and is a topic that is difficult to communicate to people who don’t share our love of spanking. Nevertheless, when we do find someone like your new wife who is open to participation we need to practice patience and understanding.

I'd like to applaud your wife for being so open and understanding of your desires. She's a good woman and I’m glad you found each other. I hope you are treating her like the precious gold she is. Many women don't want to even know from spanking but she obviously loves you and wants to connect with you. Good for her. And good for you for having the courage to communicate with her. You sound like you are way happier without ‘secrets’. I’m sorry that Leon’s wife is not as open minded. I think women really need to be more aware of the consequences of immediately shutting down and calling their spouse ‘crazy’ for having a deep seated fetish that will never go away.

I have heard your dilemma many times ‘my wife is OK about spanking me but she doesn’t want to hurt me’. This makes sense in that a spanking is commonly thought of as something punishing and not erotic. Non-spankos really don’t get it. That’s why we must be diligent in our communication and really express the turn on of a spanking. If spanking is something that doesn’t really turn her on, it’s difficult for her to understand the intense feelings we have when we hear, read, view or experience spanking. You’ll have to just keep communicating it to her.

There’s nothing wrong with verbally talking to her while she spanks you. Tell her to go harder if you feel it necessary. I bet she wants to do a good job so she’ll be happy to comply. I personally always appreciate some feedback when I am spanking someone new. That’s why I take breaks in between the spankings so role plays and spankings can be ‘fine tuned’ if necessary. You might also want to have a little ‘practice session’. Have her swing the paddle and you can rate the amount of hurt from 1-10. That way she'll have some way to gage when she does the 'real thing'

Another option would for you to both go see a professional disciplinarian. That way she can be there to observe and hopefully participate in the punishment. She can see how much you can take and see your enjoyment. I bet that would inspire her to pick up the pace at home! Hope this helps. Let me know how it works out.
- Jacqueline

Hello, Miss Jacqueline,
I wrote you several months back with some questions about getting a birthday spanking and I found a Dominatrix in my area that sounds safe and interested in spanking. She said that she would be delighted to give me a birthday spanking. So thanks to your advice, if all goes well, I will be getting my first professional spanking for my birthday this year.

Since a birthday spanking is a special event, I feel that the occasion requires proper dress. So I have requested that I receive this spanking wearing only my birthday suit and that it be a "memorable" event. This will be the first time that I have been given a real bare bottom spanking as well as my first completely nude birthday spanking.

While I am looking forward to the event, I am somewhat concerned that since I will be going to a new job during this time that it probably isn't a good idea to show up for a physical sporting the markings from a recent encounter with a paddle. How would you suggest that I handle this?

Thanks again,
- John

Dear John,
Congratulations on getting a birthday spanking. That is cool. I want to hear all about it!

If you have never been spanked, chances are good you will mark. That happens with a first spanking. You could get a bit marked with the hand but if she uses a paddle (especially a wooden one) marks are a guarantee.

If you think you will need to undress for a physical at work, I suggest you change your schedule around. Birthdays can be celebrated any day of the week. I think you'll unfortunately need to postpone the session. However, find out more about the physical first. Maybe it's just a quick check the heart and blood pressure kind of thing and nothing that you need to undress for.

I always err on the side of safety. You’ve waited so long to get your first spanking, you can wait a few days longer. The important thing is that you go to a place where you feel safe, are in experienced hands and concentrate on the experience.
- Jacqueline

Dear Jacqueline,
I am fifty-four years old. I was never married and the girl I was engaged to promised to discipline me after we were married but she got a job teaching in another state and married someone else. I cheated in college and high school. I masturbate every day and I feel so empty. In school I would hang myself from the pipes and pretend a women was whipping me. I really need women to give me a beating I would never forget.

I am writing you because I need help and I can tell by your writings you are someone who cares. I am very shy and it is hard to meet single girls around my age. If I were disciplined it may change my attitude about myself. I am six foot tall and weigh 189. well. I wish you well in your work
- Mitchell

Mitchell,
With adults, spanking is mainly about having fun and eroticism. I think you are a good man and need to learn how to feel good about yourself. Perhaps a few sessions with a supportive counselor might be in order. Once you feel better about yourself you will attract the right woman. Then, maybe you can explore a little spanking fun with her.

Meanwhile, be careful in what you do. I don’t like hearing about you ‘hanging yourself from pipes’. I know you did that a long time ago but that is very dangerous, Richard. Be careful and be good to yourself.

I care.
- Jacqueline

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Jacqueline,
Thank you for your website. If it weren’t there, I would not have anyone to talk to about my problem. For the past 10 years I have had a recurring dream pertaining to me being spanked for “not listening”. I went to one psychotherapist and she though it was a sexual fantasy. I disagreed with her, because I am not sexually aroused in the dream and sought another counselor. A few other counselors thought the same thing until I found someone that did the best job in helping me with the problem…to a point. We have actually found out why I am getting spanked in my dreams, but the solution is a little more difficult in obtaining.

To make a very long story a little shorter, my therapist suggested that I get a real spanking, seeing that the pain of getting one is the only thing that is missing in my dreams. Yep, I feel no pain from the spankings in my dream(s). For the most part, all the dreams have to do with me not listening. I really don’t want to get too clinical here, so I will give you some of the highlights.

All my spankings are bare bottom. Some are OTK, some are prone on a table, some are standing bent over a chair or table and others are standing sideways in front of her where she uses her hand to spank me. All of the dreams have me wearing shorts, underwear, tennis shoes and a pullover shirt…all except one dream. In this dream I am told to go to the other room and put on the clothes on the bed. It is women’s clothes: sundress, hi-brief panties, stockings, high-heeled, closed toe pumps, and a wig. After coming out of the room, she puts makeup on my face. She always states (in this particular dream), “Since you don’t listen, maybe dressing you as a pretty girl and spanking you as one will help you to listen”. In the latest dream (still dressed as a girl) she takes several pictures of me before spanking me. She states that she will use this against me by showing them to my friends, if I don’t start listening.

Do you know how hard it is to find someone that will role-play this scenario with me? I just can’t tell anyone about this. I have to know them for many years and trust them enough so they don’t think I am a really messed up person. I have only told 2 friends, but I think that might have put a “dent” in the friendships a little. Who knows, maybe I am screwed up a little. All I know is that I want to stop having these dreams and I am convinced that the only way is to act out the dream and finally feel the sting from the spankings I have gotten in my dreams for the past 10 year. Granted, I am not "beaten" in the dreams, but I should at least feel a little sting with the few swats that I get!

Keep in mind; I don’t have these dreams all the time. When there is a lot of stress in my life, they come back. It would appear that sometimes I do not handle stress as well as I should. Sorry if I am getting a little “clinical” here.

Your thoughts…Am I really screwed up????

Thanks for your help!
- Confused in The Midwest

Dear Confused,
I have a few questions for you: First, about how old are you? - How long have these dreams been going on? - Though the dreams are not sexual in content, what's the feeling in them - relief, chastisement, nurturing, being cared for? When you are awake, do you also think about spanking particularly when you are having sex or masturbating? I would go see a professional Disciplinarian/Dominatrix to role play some of these things for you. Not a friend. This is personal matter so you want to keep it safe, sane and discrete.

I wonder too if the dressing up is thinking of the person you actually would like to have spank you. Dreams represent different parts of our wishes and ourselves.
- Jacqueline

Jacqueline,
Thank you for the quick response. I am 48 years old. The dreams have been going on (and off) for about 10 years now. I don't really think about how long they have been going on so much, just that they seem to come around during stressful (more than normal everyday stresses) times. During the dream, I guess I know that I don't listen, so getting the spanking is something that I need.

I have come to the conclusion that it is probably me that is spanking me. Does that make any sense? I can see what she is wearing, but cannot see her face. I have never been able to see her face. I have tried, but it’s a blur.

The other feelings of being nurtured and cared for make sense to me. Especially being cared for. The answer is no in reference to waking up or thinking about spanking when I masturbate

Thank you for listening. I know you enjoy role-playing so perhaps I will need to make a trip to Los Angeles.
- Less Confused

Dear Less,
I enjoy role-playing. I think we should re-enact the dream, complete with you dressing up. After we actually do this, we can sit, talk and process. You owe it to yourself to experience something you’ve been thinking about for years.

Dreams represent thoughts you hold in your subconscious mind. I think the ‘not listening’ part is very interesting. Perhaps it feels like no one is listening or no one can listen to your feeling about wanting to be spanked. Clearly you have a curiosity and deep-seated need. I hope you allow yourself to finally get out this and explore it for real. It’s always helpful to talk to a therapist but at this point I think it’s time to experience the sting that you have such a deep need to feel.

Thanks for your stimulating emails.
- Jacqueline

Dear Jacqueline,
I hurt my wrist recently so I can’t spank Ed. I decided to get a surrogate spanker for Ed. I think it’s important that he is disciplined on a regular basis. She has been doing an excellent job. I decided to teach her a bit more in order to keep things interesting.

A quick update....my therapy is going well and I should be back in spanking shape in another week or two. I thought you'd be interested in our "substitute spanker's" response to my introducing the diaper position. Ed was devastated when I sat down with the two of them and said we needed to talk about this position, but behaved himself admirably for a boy who knew his panties were soon to be at his knees!

Anyway, she was familiar with the position, but allowed him to tuck his boy parts in under his legs and present his bottom with his legs together, thus removing the fear of an accidental smack to his privates. Actually, she let him lower his panties to just below his bottom, so they actually helped him maintain what she called the "proper boy position," so I guess it all worked out. As embarrassed as he was (I watch his spankings now), he was relieved he wasn't totally on display and that his boy parts wouldn't be punished.

I reminded him that the substitute was only going to be administering his spankings another couple of weeks and that I didn't believe in such silliness. She told me that should Ed be specifically naughty, she'd be happy to apply a strong dose of Ben-Gay to his privates prior to his spanking. The poor guy almost started to cry!

Any way, tomorrow night at 7:00 he's receiving another spanking from our new best friend. What he doesn't know is that at 4:00pm, he'll receive an e-mail from her (at his office address, no less) telling him he needs to find PURPLE panties and be wearing them, for his spanking at 7:00. The poor guy also doesn't know that there will be THREE of us watching
him take his spanking...our substitute, me, and a lady friend who's visiting for the weekend. Ed is going to take a long, hard spanking and then spend quite a bit of time in the corner while the three ladies discuss his further discipline....what fun for us, what misery for my lovely guy.

Be well!

Hugs,
- Jennifer

Hi Jennifer,
Glad you will be all healed up soon. I have a feeling Ed will too. He sure didn’t know what was in store for him when you had that mishap with your wrist.

You are such a devilish woman. I love your style. Sounds like you and your friends have such fun with Ed. And that’s what it’s all about. Spanking should be fun and enjoyable for all involved. Glad you all ‘get’ what this fetish is truly about.
- Jacqueline

Ms. Jacqueline,
I'm a 24-year-old man who has always been fascinated by spanking, even in childhood. Whenever there would be a scene on TV or in a movie involving it, my attention would sharply focus, and I would want to see it again. I craved to have it done to me by babysitters and teachers, and would sometimes be deliberately bratty in the hope that it might happen based on what I saw on TV, but the latter would have been illegal and the former never happened - they just ended up not liking me and not wanting to deal with me anymore.

On the occasions when a woman would gently pat my backside to tell me to "run along," or half-seriously swat me one for saying something mean, I desperately wanted it to turn into a full-scale OTK spanking. But it only happened once, and that time she was really angry, there was no ritual to it at all, it was sloppy, and she was clearly just being mean, so I was left feeling disgusted rather than intimate, and saw no authority in her actions.

A spanking fantasy is what gave me my first real, serious erection, when I was 9 years old and randomly started thinking about the teacher taking me over her knee. I sat there for half an hour blankly staring at my book pretending to read while my head was playing the scene over and over, and my crotch was throbbing. This was before puberty, so I couldn't do anything with the fantasy except hit my own butt in my room or the bathroom and hope nobody heard, which was never even close to satisfying. So I stopped doing that, stopped thinking about it, and my fascination subsided to the occasional double take at a scene on TV or in movies.

As a teenager, I had no hope of getting a spanking experience, so I mostly contented myself going out with girls who had dominant personalities and maybe a mild violent streak so they might get a little rough with me in a playful way. I developed a reputation in high school as a "whipped" guy because of how I acted with girls, but I loved that kind of relationship. I'm not effeminate, and I don't like being humiliated or my masculinity belittled, but I've never found having a woman in control to be humiliating. In fact, I've always felt like more of a man when I'm with a strong woman, as long as she's a caring person, because I find it encouraging and inspiring - I want to be worthy of her.

I've also been in relatively equal relationships, which can be good though less stable, or ones where I'm the strong one, and in those I find I don't like the passive-aggressiveness of weak women. A weak woman can hurt me emotionally every bit as much as a strong one, but the weak ones tend to be more petty and dishonest about it. Unfortunately, even with the strong ones I've still never developed a relationship in which I could talk about, let alone request, spanking.

Recently, I randomly came across videos involving birthday spankings at bars and other places, as well as drunken girls going after their friends with belts, and it reawakened my interest. I'd sort of given up on the whole thing, but seeing an athletic-looking college girl wielding a folded belt opened a lot of old doors in my fantasy life. I wrote out a long, ten-page fantasy on the spur of the moment, and the whole time I was writing it I felt like a million bucks. I've added other, shorter fantasies to the file as well as they've occurred to me. Anyway, long story short, I started perusing the web for spanking vids, pics, stories, etc, and came across your discipline website, and found it very stimulating.

Hope to hear from you.
- Taylor

Taylor,
Your letter is very helpful because it clearly recounts the various stages we go through. Generally the idea of spanking comes into our heads early in age. Sometimes it lays dormant but then re-emerges at puberty. Again, it may be pushed out of our heads until we are exposed to some kind of spanking stimulus. At that time we are generally well into our twenties and the urge for spanking gets stronger and stronger. The fire rages until we decide to take action. I’m glad you contacted me.

It seems like there is some kind of fetish gene that is inborn. At some point the gene gets stimulated and it strongly affects our sexuality.

The more you personally explore spanking, the easier it will be to talk about when you get into a relationship. You are in an exploratory stage in your life. Your thoughtfulness will help lead you to the right woman.

Writing is always healing and cathartic. Again, it helps clarify what you do and don’t like about spanking. Keep your writings and perhaps you can share them with the right woman.
- Jacqueline

Dear Jacqueline,
Thought I'd bring you up to date on my fem/dom feminized husband relationship with my wife. (you have my permission to post this if you wish). I recently went to a salon and got a full 'brazilian" wax! I wore my panties and explained to the girl why I wanted to look nice and feminine in that area. I keep it up just shaving there.

Every Monday we take the day off and after we both shower (and I shave most of my pubic area and the tops of my legs). I dress up in fishnet stockings, garter, crotchless lace panties, see thru skimpy bra, lace collar and slender lace tie wrap around my waist, and red lipstick. This is my "maids" outfit. It's very humiliating yet I love it! She now has a nickname for me. It's Betty. "Bitch betty!" I get her coffee, make breakfast, clean entire kitchen, then do all laundry, vacuum the entire house all while she watches her TV soaps and I tend to her ever need. She has a bell that summons me and I quickly come when I'm called.

We start with a good OTK spanking and I'm reminded of all chores I need to do. I'm always spanked good when told what to do and whether I do a good job or not, (usually I do very good), each chore ends in a good spanking after I bend over and give my nice bare ass to her. (it's always red!)

Sometimes her girlfriend comes over. I answer the door in this attire (usually with a full erection). I then ask what I can get her and take her coat. They point at me and have a good laugh but I am not permitted to shy away or cover up. I must have my hands either to my side or behind my back.

They sit in living room talking "girl talk" and watch TV while I return to my chores. But I am always attentive to the bell!
I am "Bitch Betty" to my wife but usually her friend just calls me bitch or fucking faggot. (one of my favorites as it really arouses me). They both spank me through out the day and after all my chores are done, I'm sometimes allowed to jack off in front of them. Once I talked my wife into ending our "session" by using an anal dildo on me while I sucked her big lifelike one! I loved it! Especially watching in the mirror of the bed. I ended up having the biggest ejaculation I ever had. I thought she really enjoyed it too but she told me later she thought that was going too far and thought it was too "gay". My goal is to have her one day bring a real man over on a Monday and have her eventually make me suck him!

Do you or anyone else who may read this have any suggestions on how I can help make this a reality? This would be my dream come true! Thank you,
- Betty

Dear Betty,
You sure have come a long way. I remember we had a counseling session years ago where you felt so uncomfortable about having both spanking and cross dressing desires. Now look at you!!! You and your wife are comfortable and having fun. I’m so proud of you. I’m also proud of your wife for taking this fetish of yours and turning it into something fun for herself. It sounds like she enjoys these Mondays where she gets ‘catered’ to by her maid/husband. I think she enjoys spanking you too and obviously she feels comfortable enough to share this with her own girlfriend. What a blessing and how lucky you both are!

With that said, why push the limits now? You and your wife have only been engaging in this alternative lifestyle for about a year. In that year she has accepted your penchant for dressing feminine and for receiving a spanking. That’s pretty damn good.

She strapped on the dildo and inserted a plug in your ass. I know you loved it and perhaps she’ll do it again if you are a very good boy. However, she expressed a certain amount of discomfort with it. That means you need to accept her discomfort or explore it with her further. Instead, I hear you wanting to add insult to injury by wanting to take this desire even further. Maybe in time you can have this ‘ultimate fantasy’ come true but in the meantime, you must respect her feelings. She is clearly uncomfortable about seeing you with another man so for now please drop it.

I know your situation and the fact that you have been able to make these fantasy Mondays actually happen is truly amazing. Your wife is incredibly cool and extremely open minded. Now is the time to focus on her. I know you pamper her when you are dressed but maybe there’s something else she would like for herself. Maybe it’s a shopping spree, a trip to the spa or a special vacation trip for the two of you. You know what I mean. I think she deserves something very special for taking the time to learn about your fetish and carrying it out with such ease and confidence.

Trust me. I am very open minded and non-judgmental about any sexual desire. However, when couples explore new avenues of sexuality they must always proceed with caution. Both people must be comfortable. If you are hell bent on exploring ‘forced bi’ you must educate her about it in the same way as you did spanking and dressing.

Again, thank you for the update. I’m so glad to be a part of your lives and know that my counsel has added something good and positive to your marriage.
- Jacqueline

Dear Jacqueline,
Thank you for ‘Belts, Straps and Strops’ I watched the entire DVD! WOW! I loved it. I particularly loved the interview you did and the enactmentment of a strapping by Mistress Omega and Chris North. It was both informative and erotic. It would be a good DVD to teach a couple on how to strap safely.

Again thanks for being there for me! You've helped me out so much.
- Robert

Dear Robert,
Glad you enjoyed. We put a great deal of time, effort and energy into creating something special. The DVD has everything in that it is informative, fun to watch and has a variety of strappings. It is something we are very proud of and we hope to do more DVDS of this genre.
- Jacqueline