Dear Jacqueline,
There is a guy who I punish on a regular basis. I have him lay on my lap with
his bottom up.While spanking him, he usually gets a very hard erection and rubs
against me. I expect this and don't mind it.
Yesterday, however as I was spanking him, he suddenly reached up and touched
my breasts. I wasn't expecting this and told him to stop immediately. He said
"no" and continued fondling the breasts.
I stopped the spanking and told him there would be no more today. I think the
spankings have become too good for him and he needs alternative forms of punishment.
What do you suggest?
Love,
Roberta
Hi Roberta,
No wonder this guy needs to be spanked. He's truly naughty. I agree that such
disobedient behavior calls for more severe punishment.
Next time he touches without permission give him a few smacks on his hand with
your hand or a ruler. Then make him get up off your lap and inspect him. If
he has an erection, you should smack that away. Make him get up and stand in
the corner for a while to contemplate the rest of his punishment.
A male who says the word 'no' must be corrected immediately. A good mouth-soaping
will teach him to think twice about what he says. Making him bite hard into
a bar of soap or rub the soap bar all over his teeth. Then give him a glass
of water and force him to squish the water in his mouth. Make him hold the soapy
water in his mouth while you scold. Does the trick everytime!
Next, take him by the ear and put him straight over your knee. A punishment spanking
is swift and severe. Give a good volley with the hairbrush on his bare-bottom.
Don't let up until he kicks, begs and promises to behave. You'll be able to tell
when his apologies are truly sincere.
As for that hard-on, now is the time to humiliate him. I bet after all this punishment,
his dick will be as limp as someone who's just stepped out of the ocean. Make
him show you that dick. Tell him you want to watch him play with it. Have him
kiss your rear end and thank you for the punishment. Then force him to masturbate
right there in front of you. Don't let him stop until he finished. This is very
embarrasing for most men.
I think this will turn your naughty boy into a well-behaved young man.
- Jacqueline
Dear Jacqueline,
Last weekend I gave Michael first spanking and it was exciting.
I asked Michael to take off his cloth except his shorts. I took him over my knees
and took off his shorts to his ankles. he was so surprised. I never told him about
what was gonna do. I gave him 10 swats with my palm that made his butt pink with
my finger prints. So far it was ok and he only let out a few screams. After that,
I had him stand up aganist the wall with a slight bend and legs slightly spread.
I gave him 12 swats with a paddle a wooden spoon. Actually it should have been
10, but he moved so he earned an extra 2 swats. This time he screamed more and
kicked alot as his butt got more reddness.
I then made him stand in the corner for 15 minutes with his hands on the back
of his head. I lectured him told him how I wanted him to behave in the future.
While standing in the corner, he was not allowed to touch his butt. Than night
he slept on his stomach. The marks remained for the next day and it is better
now.
I really appreciate your help. I think the spanking helped clear the air. Hopefully,
Michael will be more attentive to me in the future. I know that one spanking will
not be enough. I intend to follow your advice and repeat the punishment whenever
needed. I will also keep your number handy. If Michael's behavior doesn't improve
in a few months, I will certainly send him to you. I know that if anyone can straighten
out a naughty boy - it's you, Jacqueline. Thank so much for helping me save my
marriage. Thanks again.
- Sarah
Hi Sarah,
It's my pleasure to help and educate other women in the importance of disicplining
their men. I am being contacted more and more by other females. It's been very
gratifying. Spanking truly works wonders when it comes to controlling men who
act like naughty boys.
- Jacqueline
Ms Jacqueline,
A couple of months ago, I purchased a hairbrush and had it sent to my disciplinarian,
Lisa. You may remember that I spoke to you on the phone and you had just sent
it. I then sent you a thank-you e-mail.
Well, a couple of weeks ago I received a spanking and she used the hairbrush....
very effectively, I might add! We met at a friend of hers and both women scolded
me and I was ordered to pull down my pants and underwear and I laid across her
lap. She started with a hand spanking and then used a regular hairbrush. It stung
but was just a warm-up tot he real thing. She then took the Pacific Force hairbrush
and really gave me a good, hard spanking. I tried to cover my bottom (BIG mistake)
and then her friend got involved to hold my hand away from my bottom and to keep
me from wiggling. Then it was her turn to use the brush. Needless to say, I went
home with a good blistered bottom. I deserved every bit of it, too.
My next spanking appointment has not yet been scheduled (I was gone last week)
but it will happen soon and I've already been told the next spanking will be harder
than the first one. I'm glad I found a women who know how to discipline me and
have a wife that allows me to get the punishment spankings I need.
Thanks for having such a good spanking implement. Lissa really likes itand will
use it regularly, I'm sure. I'm going to get my bottom blistered many times, I'm
sure!
- Ray
Ray,
Glad you found a good Disciplinarian and that your wife understands your need
for disicpline. I hope that you are especially good to her after a sound spanking.
Make sure you bring your wife a special treat (flowers or a gift) each time you
see your disciplinarian. She needs to know that the spankings are beneficial to
her as well as you. She's a good lady.
The Pacific Force hairbrush is truly amazing. We searched long and hard for the
best hairbrush we could find. I'm glad we can make them available. I'm telling
you, nothing is more effective than a good old fashioned hairbrush spanking. It
turns the naughtiest brats into well-behaved human beings.
Stay in touch and behave!
- Jacqueline
The following letter is from the star of "Teacher Spanks Hard; But
Mom Spanks Harder"
Jacqueline,
Trisha and I watched the video last night. I really liked how it turned out. It
is the most realistic video I've seen. I hope you guys sell a lot of it.
When we filmed, I was totally into the head space. The spanking was quite real
for me. Watching it last night brought it all back. I especially liked how my
bottom reddened up. It was perfect.
I hope I get to do another video for Pacific Force soon. I would like to be spanked
and totally break down into sobbing hard. Under the right circumstances, I'm sure
I could. Just have to stay focused and really believe I'm getting spanked for
something I deserve.
I'm very proud of how the video turned out. I never watch male sub videos but
I like this one with me in it. The scenario was great. Very traditional. I liked
the music at the end too. It gave a twilight zone
feel to it.
Thanks again and hope to see you guys soon to shoot the next one. Tell Vinnie
I say hi.
- Alex
Alex,
Glad you liked the final product. We do too. That production is excellent largely
because of you. You truly got into your role. It's almost as if you went back
in time. Your reactions are genuine and very, very believable.
My favorite type spanking scenarios are those that are domestic and traditional.
To me, that's what spanking is all about. I don't like fake, fabricated scenarios.
Give me mom, auntie, teacher, babysitter or nanny type scenes. That's what I
love.
I'm very excited about the video. So far, the reaction is very positive. Everyone
feels that video captured the real nature of spanking. Thank you so much and
we definitely plan to do more with you in the future. Tears are very hard to
capture but I think you can go there.
- Jacqueline
Jacqueline,
I just wanted to thank you for your incredible effort the other night. To say
you did a great job would be a disservice to you and a major understatement!
I appreciated your concern as well as your patience with me in trying something
new. It is rare to find someone so dedicated to going all out to meet their
customers desires and needs, but you do just that. Thanks.
- Tommy
Tommy,
Glad you enjoyed our session. So did I. The more, I know and see someone, the
better it gets. I'm glad we communicated a great deal before we met too. That
way we got to know each other and felt comfortable when we met.
It's always difficult to take the first step. Spanking is something that was always
considered so taboo. Especially for a guy. How can a man want a woman to spank
him?
The fact of the matter is - you are not alone. There are tons of us out there
who love spanking. It's a fun, harmless activity. It can be enjoyed on many levels
and in many different ways.
I had fun trying out new scenarios and role plays with you. I loved having you
over my knee and getting to know you. It was a fun evening and I'll look forward
to seeing you again
- Jacqueline
Jacqueline,
This obsession with spanking has always been in the back of my mind ever since
I can remember. Watching the whole spanking experience is very erotic for me although
I've only seen videos and never even witnessed a spanking in real life.
I enjoy viewing f/f and m/f spanking pictures and movies but at the same time
have a desire to experience it for myself. Both receiving and getting. I have
never spoken about this to anyone just because I am afraid of what people might
think.
- Tony
Hi Tony,
I understand. Spanking is a very charged issue. Up until now, it has been almost
entirely closeted. However in the last decade it's coming to the forefront more
and more. Turns out there are more of us out there than you think. You are not
alone.
Believe it or not, there is no definitive research about where spanking and
fetish behavior comes from. Freud talked about it a little. He belives (and
I agree) that fetish sexuality comes early in life. Before you even realize
it's sexual. It then lies dormant in your subconscious until puberty.
Whatever the case, I believe spanking is something you should enjoy. Your thoughts
will never go away,so you might as well have fun with them.
I do spanking sessions mainly with my good Pacific Force customers. We do all
kinds of role plays. I can be your auntie, teacher, babysitter, stern next door
neighbor, nanny, older sister.....etc.. I have seen many people who are new .
There's much more to a spanking than the actual spanking.
When I do a session, I set the whole evening aside just for you. Unlike other
pros, I don't schedule one person after the other. This is your night. We talk,
get into the roles, I spank, then we talk a little more. I believe spanking is
very psychological as well as physical.
When you have definite plans to come to California, we can discuss having a session.
In the meantime, we can correspond and get to know each other a little better.
- Jacqueline
Hi Ms, Jacqueline,
I was noticed some thing interesting the other day, during a session. Wood seems
to cause age regression while leather makes me feel submissive. Any thought on
this? I just thought it was unique.
Respectfuly,
Brion
Thank you Jacqueline!!!
Brion,
Actually it kind of makes sense to me. It's sort of like domestic spanking vs.
S/M. Wood implements are traditional spanking devices. Teacher and principals
use wooden paddles. Moms use wooden hairbrushes and spoons. Thus the associations,
transgress you back to childhood.
With the exception of a strap, most dungeon spanking devices are made of leather.
Pro Dominatrixes often use leather paddles, floggers and crops. The ladies often
dress in leather too. In those kind of situations, your head goes towards being
a slave and submissive.
There's a huge difference between a spanking scene and a dungeon scene. The two
do not go hand and hand. They are extremely different with totally different mindsets.
Many in the S/M world will spank you as a reward since they know you like it.
Someone who understands spanking, will spank you only as punishment (whether it's
deserved or not). The reality is - there's a group who like spanking and there's
a group who like S/M. While there may be a little bit of interconnection, there's
not a whole lot.
I suggest you decide what kind of scene you want before you get into it. That
way, the proper implements can be used to get you into the proper headspace.
- Jacqueline
I took a chance and showed my wife one of your marvelous videos. (Severe Corporal
Punishment). She was very reluctantat first and acted like I was going to show
her a disgusting porn flick. I explained to her once again about the emotional
release that some folks get from a spanking and that this was the only way that
some men can cry.
She watched you first and then the other scene. I showed her the difference
and why I thought that your spankings were what I wanted most of all. She watched
you again and I think she saw the light.
The next night she gave me a spanking, Jacqueline style. I lost all dignity
and cried and begged and pleaded like a little boy. The spanking continued.
It was a long and thorough spanking and three days later I still bear the marks.
I wouldn't change a thing. The day after, I felt like I had had a month vacation.
Thank you Dear Lady!! I could kiss and hug you to pieces! (Some day I would
still like to experience one of yours.) Now it is time to order another video.
LOL!
- John
John,
I'm thrilled that your wife understood. She's a good lady.
I'm happy you got some long over-due attention to your naughty bottom.
It's very gratifying to me when I know that I have made an impact on someone
else's life. That's what it's all about for me. Your email made my day! Thank
you very, very much.
- Jacqueline
This is an email I recently
sent to Kevin. He wanted instructions before he did a session with a disciplinarian
in his area.
Kevin,
Tell your Disciplinarian to put you over her knee, pull down your pants and
spank you vigorously on your bare bottom. I want her to administer at least
20 hard smacks with the harirbrush. After your punishment write these lines
50 times. "I will carry out my responsibilities".
Let me know how it goes.
- Jacqueline
I got this reply after
his session.
Dear Jacqueline,
You emailed the above instructions to me a few weeks ago. Well, I found someone
in my area to give me a spanking and this is what happened.
'OWWWW', I have just returned from getting my first spanking from my new Disciplinarian
She scolded me about my irresponsible behavior and how naughty I was. She told
me I needed to have my lazy bottom warmed to get it in gear. Man did she ever
do a very good job of warming it up, OWWW. My bottom is so red and hot right now.
I have definitely been punished properly.
She started by baring my bottom and spanking me with her hand for at least 10
minutes. After that she set a timer and spanked me with a ping pong paddle non
stop for 5 minutes. That really really heated my hiney up. After that she gave
me the 20 full force whacks with the hairbrush. Then the most embarrassing part,
she made me stand in the corner bare bottomed for 15 minutes and think about my
behavior and why I was being punished.
After my cornertime, I was made to sit on a hard wooden chair bare bottomed and
write out my punishment lines that you gave to me. I can definitely feel that
my bottom is hot. And just touching it with my hands I can really tell. I can't
believe how red my bottom is too. It is bright red. I feel very well punished.
I can still hear her scolding running through my mind, loud and clear.
I just wanted to tell you that I have learned my lesson and I am going to get
it in gear and do all of my homework just as soon as I finish this email. I will
keep motivated now just by thinking back about this spanking. I can assure you
that I have learned my lesson and I will never slack off again. It is wrong and
immature for someone about to graduate and start looking for a job. Even though
my bottom is red and hot I wanted to thank you very much for taking the time out
of your busy schedule to encourage me to get the punishment I need. Thanks again
- Kevin
Jacqueline,
'Wife Takes Control' is definitely the best video that I have seen in years. Lena
is upset, delivers hard spanking, then takes control with having fun of her own.
Lena is very beautiful
I guess what I liked best was the way she began getting turned on riding his face.
The ass kissing scene is one of the first I has ever seen in a femdom video. Most
just fake it.
Thanks again for pushing my buttons.
Vic
Vic,
Yes, Lena is great and very sexy. You'll be seeing more of her in the future.
- Jacqueline
Dear Jacqueline, - Harold
Upon reading your Fem-Dom Letters, I was appalled at the complete lack of respect
shown to you by some of the writers. Some of them referred to you by just your
first name without the proper title. This is very disrespectful to a fine Mistress
like yourself, and I was quite surprised you didn't admonish them when you replied
to them.
You should always be addressed as Mistress Jacqueline or Dear Mistress Jacqueline
Those who violate this rule should be given a special extra hard spanking if
and when they visit you. Several extra trips across your knee would be most
appropriate, don't you think?
P.S. Even though I do not disrespect you Mistress, an extra trip over your knee
would be good for me too.
Harold,
You will especially go over my knee, Harold because you obviously didn't read
one of my latest articles. I do not wish to be addressed as Mistress anymore
because I consider myself more of a Disciplinarian/spanking person rather than
someone associated with dungeon activities.
What's in a name or a title? it's all fabricated anyway. I earn respect simply
by who I am and what I do. I don't need a title in order to feed my ego or create
a fabricated image. I think that's one of the reasons we formed this country.
We wanted to get away from the class system. Whether one wants to be a spanker
or a spankee; dominant or submissive - we are all equally valuable human beings.
I am a person who loves spanking and enjoys meeting like-minded spanking people.
I love producing spanking products, acting in videos, writing about spanking
and participating, etc.
I appreciate your concern, Harold. I'm not really angry but I'd love to take
you and all my readers straight over my knee....just because I enjoy it! (and
you will too!)
- Jacqueline Omerta