Dear Jacqueline,

I love to spank naughty men.

To have them bare bottomed and helpless, squirming across my lap as I spank and paddle their pink behinds a deep fiery red.

My current partner is sometimes a very bad man.. He knows he's in big trouble when I tell him at breakfast that he should be home promptly that evening for a little discussion about his behavior. It gives the poor boy all day long to think about what's going to happen to him when he returns home from work. How I'll make him stand before me while I sit and scold him about all the bad things he's done recently. The uncompleted chores, the late night out with the boys he neglected to mention, his disrespect to me - there's never a shortage of naughty behavior to discuss.

With childish optimism he hopes that I've forgotten or simply not noticed what he's done. But wives always know, and what they must do to remedy it. Upstairs, in to his pajama's and wait by the bed for a good sound spanking on his bare bottom.

When he knows that he's been found out, he'll mumble his ridiculous excuses, trying to escape his reasonable and deserved chastisement. I always listen to him. Wives are fair and don't want to have to redden their partner's bottoms. But I tell him that it's his choice. If he behaved himself then I wouldn't have to tan his bottom until he couldn't sit down. I know you understand this Jacqueline. These guys just can't seem to help themselves and stay out of trouble can they?

Scolding done and excuses rejected, I take him by the ear and march him upstairs to his bedroom. Sitting on the bed, I tell him to get undressed and in to his special snug fitting pair of red soft cotton jammies. If he protests about me staying in the room while he removes his clothes, I take his arm and help him by pulling down his trousers and smacking the seat of his underpants. That usually ends his defiance and very soon he's standing in the corner dressed in his cute pj's with hands on head.

When I'm ready, and only when I'm ready, I call him over. Then the pleas and promises start. He won't be a bad boy ever again mommy and please don't spank me!! I am used to repentant boys,I've heard it all before. Over my knee he goes and the spanking he's earned can begin.

Warming the seat of his jammies is only the start, but I make sure that when I pull down his pants he's already wriggling and wailing about how sore his bottom is.

I can see that his cheeks are a little red, but not red enough. Not sore enough to teach him a lesson. A lesson he'll remember every time he sits down the following day. Sighing at what I must do, I grip him tightly and continue spanking with my hand. I cover all over and under his bared bottom until it's a pleasing and even shade of cherry red. Then I reach for my hairbrush. In that pause my naughty man will start pleading all over again. He knows what's coming and hates his mommies old oak brush that makes him cry and so very very sore.

As the brush bounces repeatedly off his blistered bottom I remind him that he's earned this all by himself. Poor boy, he cries and wriggles and promises to be good. But loving and dedicated Disciplinarians know that they must not weaken or give in to their softer maternal instincts. A proper spanking he was promised and a proper spanking he is going to get.

One soundly smacked bottom later, it's back to the corner to stand and rub his swollen cheeks. Sniffing and feeling so sorry for himself, this is the time the message will really sink in.

Disciplinarians are not mean. When I think he's learned his lesson and understood the consequences of his bad behavior, I call him to me. He waddles across with his little jammies still around his ankles and sits on my knee for soothing words and hugs.

I gently pat and rub his bare bottom, holding him to my chest while I tell him he's forgiven. I smile a little as he tells me that he will be very good from now on. I'm sure that he means it as he wiggles around my lap on his hot sore bottom, but I have heard it all before.

Karen S. Charlotte, North Carolina

Hi Karen,

What a good Disciplinarian you are and what a clear understanding you have of men. All men are naughty little boys who need attention in the form of stern spankings followed by tender carresses and nurturing. I love the picture you painted of spanking your man in his pjs. What a lucky guy. Sure you'll be the heroine of many of the women who are website members.

- Jacqueline

Dear Dave,

First off, I do want to support and compliment your wife. She took a first step towards doing something that is important and necessary for your relationship. Obviously you need guidelines and control. Finally, she's understanding and doing what needs to be done.

Don't worry. In time she'll know that real spankings need to hurt in order to be real and effective. This was only he first attempt. She'll get the hang of it.

You know, I love working with couples. If you are in the LA area, you guys should come over. There's so much informtion I can share with your wife. Also, I know ways to make the discipline a rewarding experience for her.

Find out what she wants. When you are naughty, you must accept her punishment and give her something she wants. Maybe sexual pleasure. Maybe doing extra household chores or some extra vacation time.

The disicplinary lifestyle must be rewarding and satisfying for you both. Congratulations on taking the first step. I'm proud of you both.

- Ms. Jacqueline