I have a problem.

I live in the Netherlands and in my mid 60s. I retired as a government worker a few years ago. My wife is a retired school teacher.

I have been married for over 30 years. The marriage will not split because of this problem. We are both practicing Christians. We were virgins when we were married and there has been no sex outside marriage. Before we were married my finance knew that I was very keen on sex. The first 5 to 10 years of marriage were great. Then things sex wise got in a rut. My wife did not show much interest in sex and slowly but surely became disinterested in sex, although she did not stop me having sex, even if it seemed one sided.

As sex did not get better as time marched on I wanted her to spank and cane me on a part time basis, say once a fortnight. I wanted to feel humiliated and dominated by her. She tried to do this on a few occasions, but she did not like doing it and it was not successful. This lead to much frustration and irritation. I threatened to spank her as she did not show any interest in sex. Eventually I carried out the threat and spanked her OTK. She was very angry and I said that I would not do it again without her permission. Communication is neither of our strong points in this situation. She does not wish to do something that she does not wish to do and I do not want to hear her say No to my requests.

I have suggested that we have extra short break holidays, which I know she would like, if she spanks and canes me. Also she knows that if I was to get objectionable that she would be inconvenienced, as she cannot drive the car. She thinks that it is too much for me to ask her to do it. I feel hurt that she will not attempt to do it. I feel that if we structured rules with accompanying consequences for disobedience I know that I would have to improve or I would be caned regularly, whereas my wife would not have so much to improve. She would not want to be spanked, but I feel that she must abide by the rules to be fair and also help to persuade her to improve. I do not wish to spank her unless it was to improve her.

If she could bring herself to do this then I think that it would bring us closer together and we would both benefit. Am I asking too much of her? She is aware that I would not divorce her and it looks as if she is taking advantage of this. For much of my working life I was in middle management and although I took major decisions in the marriage I tried to let her be independent and an equal partner. Although I am a male I did not feel that I was in complete control and hence feel that she did not try to work at my sexual needs.

Lately I have developed the wish to be properly caned, i.e. well beyond what I could comfortably take. Ideally my wife would do this. I have not dared approach my wife about this. When I was a very young teenager I did something at school which I did not get caught out for and for which I have felt guilty, but of course not guilty enough to own up to. I do not know if a proper caning would take away my guilty conscience or not, but I would like to properly caned. I know from the couple of times my wife spanked me that my pain threshold is low.

Is there any advice you can give either of both of us to resolve this situation as I would prefer that it was done within the marriage? My wife is aware that I may look outside marriage for a caning.

I have tried to be honest and give you the main facts. It is a pity that I do not live in your area. Any help would be gratefully received.
- Peter

My name is Daniel, and I am not sure if I ever written you before, but I was wondering if I might ask you a question? This is my question. Suppose I were at your house in the front yard, and I saw you coming out the front door for a cigarette, and I came up to you and said to you, "Ms Jaq, I would like to sit on top of your head for a few hours, it really turns me on." What would your reaction be?

A. Follow through with the request and make me sit on top of your head
B. Take me across your knee with both my pants and underpants down and paddle my bare-bottom for a few hours.
C. Both. Paddle my bare bottom then make me sit on top of your head, I mean directly on the top back of your head, with you wearing a hair bun?

Something to think about, if you were to pick C, that would actually be the most torturous thing for the guy, because after spanking them so hard so they can't sit down anywhere, and then making them sit on top of your head, which they would be in a lot more pain, because they would feel your head on their bottom, and with you nodding as well continuously nonstop, wouldn't you want the man to feel that kind of torture? Just curious, I myself would like to know what it feels like.

Thanks,

- Daniel

I am educated, hardworking, clean and polite...but I love spanking...both giving and receiving, I dont know which I enjoy more.

The problem is finding a willing partner or someone who understands this area of human behavior. It has been over a year since I last spanked a woman and well over six years since I have been across a womans knee.

I was married to a woman who enjoyed the spanking scene and I spent many an hour across her knee and she so enjoyed spanking me to tears. However the relationship did not last and I have been searching in vain since then to find someone of like mind.

I enjoy and desperatly need a good over the knee spanking administered by someone who knows what they are doing...I mean a real spanking with tears and pleading and promises to behave....I also understand the need for mouth soaping during a spanking.

I will order the magazine in hopes of finding a suitable disciplinarian if not a life partner....the women who I have tried in the past have all been totally inadaquate in this field.

Anyway thank you so much for your time and for the service that you provide.

Sincerely...Jon

Along with my enclosed order, I thought I would take this chance to drop you a line. I believe we share a lot of common interests in our appreciation for severe spankings. I just wanted to tell you how much I enjoy your products. You are a very sexy and attractive lady, with a charming personality. I talked with you several times on the phone. What an exciting adventure it must be, to be spanked and paddled by you. You can spank my ass anytime, baby! I wish we weren't so far from each other. I can also only imagine being spanked by you and Sondra, or you and Omega.

An opportunity also presents itself in the very near future. I have always wanted an attractive female to be present and watch as I am being disciplined. My disciplinarian has now arranged (finally) for this to become a reality. Not only will she be present but she has also agreed to assist in spanking and paddling my ass. This will be the first time ever I will be spanked by two ladies. The usual one hour session will also be extended to two hours. Also, only the most effective implements from previous spankings have been selected. It almost goes without saying what will happen here. I probably won't even have to mention that I want to experience being spanked well beyond my limits.

During my last spanking, which was back in July, I got my ass pounded 350 times the wooden hairbrush. This really is an effective item. I had a large, dark, red strawberry on each ass cheek for three weeks afterwards! I have also been paddled the sintra paddle.

Also, in your 'Power X-Change Magazine Issue #18: Women Who Spank Men', pages 8 and 9, the photo on page 9 gets me so hot every time I see it! Your assistant is absolutely stunning, so cute, with long, beautiful hair, long, thin legs, tiny waist and cute little ass. I love her outfit, that short little skirt, her tits pushing out of her top. You look quite stunning as well in your heels and elegant black outfit. What a pair you two are! I would trade places with this guy in a heartbeat!

So long for now, give me a call if you can or drop me a few lines with my order.

Thank you,
Warren

I just finished 'Angry Female Spankers'. I was not looking for much without you Jacqueline but I was pleasently surprised with the Video.

Hopefully I will be able to walk and sit down soon. It was a 2 spankasm video. Recently I have added self spanking. It is very cool to do while watching.

I loved the the angry spankers. Ms Gemini and Ms Breeze were excellent. I loved the exellent OTK I loved the shoe shots about 5 or so. I loved the "look up my ass to see where I Poop and Pee". Good job.

Thanks again

- Tom